Why do we care?

Recent stories have emerged about the alleged Solange Beyonce's sister assaulting  the rapper Jay-z in an elevator, there is no question about the situation Solange seems very angry at Jay-z Beyonce's husband and the father of her daughter. The video came out on Monday and it quickly grabbed everyone's attention, everyone started wondering what made Solange to kick and scream at the Jay-z. Everyone me included made a joke about the situation but perhaps maybe its not a funny situation. Everyone is curious to know what she was mad about, and as always we quickly jump to the conclusion before even the real person speaks out, the person who was involved speaks out we start creating stories that don't really matter.

Is it really our business to know what they were fighting about? Honestly i don't really think that it is our business to even see this video, I know us humans we are very curious people and we always want answers. But put yourself in their shoes, would want the world to know every single thing about you? This matter is serious and it seems like people have made it a laughing matter they are playing with it, they are creating stories that aren't true. When we are creating memes about this or writing stories about what she might have been pissed about, do we stop and think about what this might be doing to them, their families their lives, or their careers these are real people you know and no one has the right to speak for them when they can resolve their own problems and when they are ready to explain, they will explain. How do you think this will influence their relationship, how do you think this will influence their child's future. There is no parent in this whole world who wants their kid to know about or see what was happening in that elevator because explaining to them is difficult but now everyone has had their fun and have already created why they were fighting now they will have to explain it to her in the future. So now everyone has an idea why they were fighting does anyone want to hear the real story from them?

I think the problem with us society is that we want to know things that has no effect on our lives at all, imagine how much time everyone wasted searching watching the video and reading about the fight and this whole time except for the video you don't know the real story. But we would rather spend 30 minutes tops reading something that is written by someone who has no idea about what happened there at all. Maybe in that 30 minutes you would've done something that actually is better for your life. Why do we care about people's life, their life their business, you know what i love about this country how much freedom everyone has, there is many country in this world that don't have as much freedom as this country has. But what do we do with this freedom? We use it to ruin other people's freedom Jay-z and Beyonce was taken away from them the moment that video was put out there for the world to see. I think everyone should just chill and stop sniffing with their noses where they shouldn't sniff, Just like I or everyone else would want to have freedom to privacy, let them deal with their own problem its not my problem or anyones problem to know why they were fighting. If they wish they will explain and if they don't just shut up no ones business.